The Guardian is looking for couples to talk frankly – and anonymously – about their sex lives for the Saturday magazine’s much-loved This is How We Do It column. Whether you’re having the best sex of your life, or things have stalled slightly, we’d like to hear honest stories of how you connect in the bedroom.
We are especially keen to hear from people who feel their sex lives are not particularly wild or unusual. We want to hear how you navigate intimacy after you have kids, or when your partner wants sex more than you do, or how you’ve found sex with a new partner after a divorce.
We’re looking for couples of all ages and sexualities, from twenty-somethings who have been dating a month, to octogenarians who have been together 60 years.
We would not publish your names or where you live.